A Shift Is Here: When Insight Stops Being Enough | Embodiment & Healing
- Fabienne

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Embodiment, identity, and what animals reveal when insight isn’t enough

At some point, insight stops being enough.
There comes a moment when an identity that isn’t lived in the body can no longer be maintained — when the mask comes off, not by choice, but because the system can’t carry it anymore.
Many people reach this point after they’ve done a great deal of inner work. They have reflected deeply, named patterns, understood their history, and developed a strong sense of identity and purpose. And yet, something still doesn’t align.
The body reacts. Relationships strain. Old dynamics resurface in new forms.
This isn’t a sign that something went wrong. It’s a signal that a deeper layer is ready to be met.
Astrology offers a useful lens here. Neptune speaks to illusion, idealisation, and the stories we tell ourselves to feel safe, while Aries relates to instinct, agency, and the courage to act from a lived sense of self. As Neptune moves into Aries on January 26, attention is drawn precisely to the space between understanding and embodiment — where insight alone is no longer enough.
This is not about becoming stronger or more assertive overnight. It’s about gently noticing where we may still be performing coherence rather than inhabiting it. Thoughts like “I’ve healed”, “I’m beyond that”, or “I know better now” can start to feel thin when they aren’t met by what the body and nervous system actually hold.
What tends to surface instead are quieter truths: softened boundaries, unexpressed anger, exhaustion from self-override, or a vague sense that something isn’t honest anymore.
Neptune doesn’t expose these places harshly. It dissolves what no longer fits, making it harder to bypass what is still asking to be felt.
This process is deeply relational. We rarely discover these gaps in isolation. They show up in connection — in moments of tension, withdrawal, over-functioning, or confusion. And very often, they appear in the relationships that feel safest.
Animal companions are especially honest mirrors in this regard.
They respond less to what we say and more to how we are. They register our regulation, our pace, our clarity, and our internal boundaries. Anxiety, aggression, withdrawal, or behavioural changes in animals are often not problems to be fixed in isolation, but signals pointing toward something in the relational field that wants attention.
This is something I explored recently in a podcast conversation about healing with humans and their animal companions. We spoke about how animals often mirror unresolved emotions and unexpressed needs, how they provide an emotionally safe, non-judgemental presence, and why working at the level of root cause — rather than symptom management — can create lasting change for both.
When the root is addressed, change doesn’t have to be forced. It unfolds naturally, across the relationship.
If you’re feeling this in your own life — the sense that insight alone no longer carries you — there is a way to work with it.
I offer Root Cause Therapy (RCT) for people, as well as tandem sessions that work with both you and your animal companion, addressing the shared relational field rather than treating either side in isolation. For the rest of January, tandem sessions are available with a 10% reduction.
If you’re curious or have questions, you’re welcome to get in touch. Sometimes the next step isn’t about learning more — it’s about letting what you already know finally land in the body.
With warmth and possibility,
Fabienne ♡
A Shift Is Here: When Insight Stops Being Enough | Embodiment & Healing
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